I think we've pretty much settled the name..

Last night I thought I'd try to pull a fast one on YL to change her mind and name our son Bartholomew instead....

Here was how to conversation went:

Me: Hey - do you know that Matthew was a tax collector before he became a disciple of Jesus?
YL: (pauses for a moment) Yah but tax collector GOOD what...
(End of topic of conversation)

hmmm.....